a. The wounded in love or affection.

A wounded in love is one who, having opened their heart to love or a romantic relationship, emerged from it with immense disappointment, the marks of which can be visible or invisible. Visible marks may include: an unwanted child, loss of job, depression, divorce, loss of material possessions, betrayal, or even abortion.

After going through these stages, a feeling of vengeance can lead a wounded in love to become a love bandit, as they feel it is time to seek revenge for the pain that love has inflicted upon them. They may want to transmit the pain of their emotions to their partner. That’s why they will guard their heart and be without remorse in the relationship. It would be good to heal from the past and forgive those who have caused us pain in love, in order to aspire to personal fulfillment.

If underlying work is not done, future relationships will be difficult to manage, as doubt will set in and one might constantly suspect their partner of imaginary infidelity or want to spy on their phone and eavesdrop on their phone conversations.

b. Married and committed men.

Sometimes more insightful and very charming, married men often readily engage in romantic banditry. Some engage in it during their wife’s pregnancy, and others simply because they want to explore new paths. Having the means to pursue their conquest, they are willing to offer luxury trips, dinners at upscale restaurants, in order to satisfy their sexual desire and appetite.

Some naive and inexperienced girls often fall into the trap when, on a first date, they are offered a huge sum of pocket money that their parents could not afford them. Or very quickly, they are offered a state-of-the-art phone. Sometimes, the love bandit could make the young girl realize that a girl of her caliber should not suffer from such or such a need.

In this category, there are those who have ritual demands, and others do it just to satisfy their ego and know that they can afford any type of woman, regardless of their marital situation. The category that does it for occult demands will be analyzed further below. But it is good to recognize that some married men still like to say that they have troubles with their wife at home and will not hesitate to separate from her.

This is a language that goes over well, and the victim feels confident, knowing that she is doing nothing wrong, especially since the gentleman has confided in her that things are not going well in his home. Some go there to experiment with abominable sexual positions that they would not do with their wife. It is therefore very important to know the terrain very well when maintaining an intimate relationship with a married man. It is therefore important for everyone to hold on to their values, and this will guide life choices.

Young girls should constantly review Christian values and those that their parents have instilled in them since their early childhood, in order to know how to distinguish and flee from this category of love bandits.

c. People acting in bad faith.

A person acting in bad faith is someone who is driven by bad intentions and desires to harm those around them. A love bandit acting in bad faith is sometimes motivated by a spirit of malice. They are irrational; their desire is simply to inflict harm in love and sometimes without reason. When asked to understand…

This text is an excerpt from the book “THE BANDITS IN LOVE” written by Elisabeth Bell.

We invite you to read the following article “The Damages Incurred When Dating a Love Bandit“.

Love Bandits.