HOW TO PROTECT YOUR HUSBAND

Marriages are under serious attack and divorce rates in our nations are increasing at an alarming rate. I strongly believe that one of the main reasons for this surge is that many married couples do not understand God’s concept and purpose for marriage. They have not sought God’s guidance on the question of “How does God see my marriage?” Instead, many enter into marriage for selfish reasons and with wrong motivations, seeking personal satisfaction such as security, sexual pleasure, companionship, children, and happiness. However, they fail to realize God’s purpose for a man and woman to be united in marriage.

To build a thriving marriage, it is crucial to have a clear understanding of God’s concept and purpose, as well as recognizing and appreciating the differences between male and female genders. The functionality, peculiarities, reasoning, and reactions of the male and female genders are quite different, and a lack of understanding can create an atmosphere of conflicts in the home.

After publishing “How to protect your wife,” many men requested a similar version for women, which led to the writing of this book. Your husband needs protection for him to be the man that God has designed him to be. It takes wisdom and purpose to build an effective marriage, and a wise woman builds her house, while a foolish woman destroys it with her own hands.

There are two kinds of married women: the wise and the foolish. To protect and maintain your husband, you need wisdom, which is the application of knowledge. It may require changing negative attitudes, such as ways of talking, reactions, actions, feelings, and accepting the headship of your man.