The desire for revenge can give us superhuman strength, but this strength can be either constructive or destructive; it all depends on how it is used. Revenge is about returning the harm that was done to us. In a way, it’s entirely understandable and even seems normal to want to repay evil to those who have harmed us.

But in truth, revenge resolves nothing; it doesn’t ease the pain suffered and does nothing to lessen the damage caused by the hurt. Many see revenge as a remedy for offense. However, revenge only brings an illusory, fleeting sense of well-being and serves merely to satisfy the ego. It seems to lessen the pain and resentment, but it only stokes the bitter flames. It darkens us and brings us down to the same level as our enemy.

The best revenge is to transcend the offense, to succeed and thrive in life. We must preserve and use our strength for our progress and success. We should surpass those who sought to be a barrier on our path and react with indifference toward those who have offended us. For by seeking revenge, we give them attention and importance they do not deserve.

Let us use the energy gained through hardship for our own development and growth. This is the best revenge.

Unconditional Love

A heart filled with unconditional love has no room for hatred or resentment. A heart full of love is welcoming, gentle, and kind. It always acts in the interest of others. Unconditional love protects us from unhealthy feelings.

In the past, I was often hurt by the fact that some people took advantage of my trust. By nature, I am generous. I have given much and received little in return. That’s how I learned that to avoid certain inner wounds, one should not expect gratitude from others. Instead, simply show unconditional love.

Thus, we do good without expecting or asking for anything in return. The Bible confirms this:

“It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Acts 20:35

This text is an excerpt from the book “BITTERNESS KILLED ME, FORGIVENESS BROUGHT ME LIFE” written by Josué WANYA.

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