The most recurrent spiritual issue faced by the average Christian is related to his intellectual life. Male libido is so powerful that sex often seems to be the main focus of his thoughts. Any military man can testify that 95% of off-duty conversations revolve around sex. Dirty jokes and stories filled with swear words become […]
Fortunately for women, men and cultures are evolving! A generation ago, it was reported that many men appeared to be selfish lovers, and society contributed to their image as “males” who were seen as animals in the bedroom. The sexual pleasure given by a small woman was considered their divine right, and their relationships were […]
A young bride interrupted me during my usual discussion about intimate relations before marrying the couple. “Pastor LaHaye, do we really need to talk about this? It makes me uncomfortable. It will work out on its own.” It’s no surprise that this naive young woman became pregnant in the first month of marriage, and I […]
We have observed that most women are more romantic than men. “Women are incurably romantic,” an analyst once said. Instead of fighting this fact, the wise husband will cooperate with this need in his wife’s heart. Because the honeymoon is the fulfillment of a woman’s lifelong dreams, a loving husband will do everything possible to […]
Almost all sexual manuals emphasize the need for an adequate period of foreplay, or love play. This is essential not only on the first night but throughout the marriage. Most men have learned that foreplay is essential for their wife’s enjoyment during sexual relations. However, they tend to minimize their own need for foreplay, as […]
Karen, a charming twenty-nine-year-old mother of three, came for counseling. She was visibly upset: “Pastor, I really love my husband, but lately, I’ve noticed that my resentment towards him is becoming more intense. If nothing changes soon, I’m going to end up hating him!” Even though she struggled to express it, she eventually admitted that […]
Guilt. Despite modern psychology, every human being begins life with an intuitive sense of guilt. The Bible explains that every human possesses a conscience, “which sometimes accuses and at other times defends them” (Romans 2:15). Today’s proponents of free love try to eliminate the conscience or educate it to the point where it is forgotten […]
In this context, we also need to consider premature ejaculation. Approximately 20% of husbands today face the issue of premature ejaculation. This is very frustrating for a woman, as it is impossible to make love without an erect penis, and after ejaculation, a man’s penis becomes too soft to maintain the necessary pressure on the […]
Recovering after surgery in a renowned medical research center, a doctor sat in the office of a colleague from medical school, who was now the head of the hospital. He asked, “Do you think medical issues are increasing these days?” Without hesitation, his friend replied: “Yes. Male impotence! Hardly a day goes by without a […]
The most common remedy for premature ejaculation is for the husband to avoid unnecessary friction on the head of the penis immediately after penetration. This requires significant self-discipline, as at this point of arousal, his instinct urges him toward deep thrusting. This instinctive action is a natural method for depositing male sperm deep in the […]
