Almost all sexual manuals emphasize the need for an adequate period of foreplay, or love play. This is essential not only on the first night but throughout the marriage. Most men have learned that foreplay is essential for their wife’s enjoyment during sexual relations. However, they tend to minimize their own need for foreplay, as […]
Karen, a charming twenty-nine-year-old mother of three, came for counseling. She was visibly upset: “Pastor, I really love my husband, but lately, I’ve noticed that my resentment towards him is becoming more intense. If nothing changes soon, I’m going to end up hating him!” Even though she struggled to express it, she eventually admitted that […]
Guilt. Despite modern psychology, every human being begins life with an intuitive sense of guilt. The Bible explains that every human possesses a conscience, “which sometimes accuses and at other times defends them” (Romans 2:15). Today’s proponents of free love try to eliminate the conscience or educate it to the point where it is forgotten […]
In this context, we also need to consider premature ejaculation. Approximately 20% of husbands today face the issue of premature ejaculation. This is very frustrating for a woman, as it is impossible to make love without an erect penis, and after ejaculation, a man’s penis becomes too soft to maintain the necessary pressure on the […]
Recovering after surgery in a renowned medical research center, a doctor sat in the office of a colleague from medical school, who was now the head of the hospital. He asked, “Do you think medical issues are increasing these days?” Without hesitation, his friend replied: “Yes. Male impotence! Hardly a day goes by without a […]
The most common remedy for premature ejaculation is for the husband to avoid unnecessary friction on the head of the penis immediately after penetration. This requires significant self-discipline, as at this point of arousal, his instinct urges him toward deep thrusting. This instinctive action is a natural method for depositing male sperm deep in the […]
No woman can cure her husband’s impotence on her own. She can help him, as mentioned above, but this is an exclusively male issue that only he can resolve through serious effort. Here are some steps a husband can take in addition to those mentioned previously: Nothing amplifies fear like ignorance, but nothing reduces fear […]
“For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, for it is made holy by the word of God and prayer.” 1 Timothy 4:4-5 In the Bible, the heart is the place of inner life. It is in the heart that decisions are made, determining the […]
“Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.” Hebrews 13:4 There are two dangers that threaten sexuality: on the one hand, the fear of surrendering to the intimacy required by a physical relationship, the fear that sexuality is something dirty […]
Growing up, I spent my summers at an all-boys Christian summer camp. Hiking, swimming, sports, archery, and horseback riding – this camp had it all. Over the years, I calculated that I spent nearly a year and a half at camp. Even in this ideal environment, young men constantly asked me for advice on how […]
